I recently returned from South Africa after spending a summer working and taking classes at one of the historically black/colored universities. I always read about apartheid and the racial conflict – but I was not aware of the post apartheid issues festering. On the surface, things seemed kumbaya – Mandela was released from prison, apartheid ended, the African National Congress became the new government. However, while I was there, many people were reluctant to have a conversation if the topic [...]

Message….

Check out the link below. Kinda a follow-up to the “eye of the tiger” post. These women are not speaking on the phenomena of black men marrying non-black women, but are offering the perspective on being unmarried, eligible black women who are being looked over. Although I don’t agree with a lot of things in this clip (notably the list of 40 things a man should have), I would like to get some feedback. Are they delusional? Is Steve Harvey [...]